SELF-LOVE, CONFIDENCE, THIN PRIVILEGE & FAT bias with Jolieke Bak | The S*ut Show S6E1

The Slut Show is back with a brand new 6th season! Kicking off the season – alongside host Ellen Moore, is business owner, body acceptance guru and the queen of self-love: Jolieke Bak. They’ll dive into Jolieke’s struggles with both body image and self-confidence and how she – a fat* person in a diet obsessed world –  learned to love herself. All this and WAY Mo(o)re, live now!

Please note: this episode may be considered triggering to those struggling with food / body-dysmorphia. Below you find a layout of that which is discussed on this week’s episode of The Slut Show, trigger-warnings included.

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On this episode of The Slut Show
00:00-00:04                       Sponsor of the week (@BakedByBak)
00:04-00:20                       Intro (tune)
00:20-02:48                       What to expect on Season 6 of The Slut Show
02:48-03:41                       Introducing this week’s guest: Jolieke Bak
03:41-03:58                       Leader (tune)
03:58-06:58                       What’s the most empowering thing you did lately?
06:58-16:30                       Slutty Science: Thin Privilege
16:30-20:18                       Growing up as a fat* kid
20:18-23:20                       The moment Jolieke realized her relationship with food was unhealthy

TRIGGER-WARNING ! From 22:20-23:10 we discuss disordered eating

23:33-25:29                       How Jolieke developed a healthy relationship with food
25:29-26:15                       When did you first learn about feminism & how does it play a role in your life now?
26:15-29:27                       The start of becoming an influencer
29:27-31:05                       How were you raised in regards to self-love?
31:05-32:15                       Sponsored give-away (with @BakedByBak)
32:15-33:43                       The start of her business: @BakedByBak
33:43-35:06                       From theatre kid to theatre teacher
35:06-35:59                       What theatre was like for Jolieke growing up
35:59-38:44                       Lack of inclusivity in theatre
38:44-40:57                       Lack of inclusivity in the work place
40:57-42:15                       Why representation matters
42:15-42:45                       How being fat* impacted Jolieke her sex life
42:45-44:58                       Less weight, more insecurities
44:58-47:45                       Mail: I want to learn to love my body, where do I begin?
47:45-48:11                       How do you see the future?
48:11-48:33                       What would you tell your younger self?
48:33-50:13                       What’s the biggest thing you’ve learned in regards to self-love?
50:13-50:47                       Next week on The Slut Show
50:47-51:36                       Where else to find + support us

 

*We use the term fat (among others) to describe Jolieke her size. We do so upon her request, but more importantly because we find it of crucial importance to destigmatize this word, by using it the way it was meant: to describe a size - free of judgement.